Judging

"have an open mind" "don't judge other people" you hear it everyday. I heard someone say one time that studies are showing judgments being "earned" within 20 seconds of meeting. To me thats borderline ABSURD! But think about it, how you carry yourself, walk, posture, talk all describes who you are, how you feel, what kind of person you are etc. So when you meet someone they are "in tune" to the "vibes" (the things listed above) that you are giving out. I learned in class that females are more in tune to those things than males are. Greeeaaaatttt....:-)